When
I am Alone
“Turn to me
and have mercy, for I am alone and in deep distress.” Psalm 25:16
Young or
old, man or woman, rich or poor; one of the worse feelings you can have is to
be lonely. It isn’t only the fact of a
person being physically alone, it can be that you feel deserted or have no
friends. Loneliness is the epitome of
hopelessness. Immediately this throws word
pictures in your mind; an elderly person sitting in their chair with no friends
or family, or a man sitting in a prison cell; a child left alone by a
parent. I’m sure you get the picture.
I, myself
have felt that loneliness, although there were people around me. I recall a
time when I was in my twenties, I suffered nervous breakdown and was put in a
rest home. I felt everyone deserted me
and because of the treatment I received there, I experienced great loneliness
and hopelessness. I wanted to give up,
but something inside of me wouldn’t let me.
I know now that God was protecting me.
I can say today, as it says in James 1:2 “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall
into various trials”. Because of that experience I have been able to minister to countless
people who felt lonely and hopeless.
I think of many teens who experience these feelings
and they think that no one understands them.
It may come from a poor relationship with parents, or it may come from
feeling insecure with their peers. Or it
may come from feeling melancholy about life because of physical problems like
hormones. What really matters is the
feelings and what can be done about it.
I often think of my mother when she was
elderly. My father passed away years
before and when she was active she was happy.
Then as the years went by she became more and more homebound. My siblings and I lived in another city and
couldn’t always be there. I worked full time and was very active in our church
and had four children and grandchildren.
However, all of us were there a lot, even the grandchildren. We took her on trips and spent all the
holidays with her, but she always told me that Sunday was the loneliest time
for her. She was always active in
church, but eventually could no longer attend and most of her close friends had
passed away. I know she had it better
than so many elderly, but she still experienced loneliness.
How many are in nursing homes and do not have any
visitors. Some have children that just
don’t visit them. It is so sad that many
who are put in homes just give up; they are lonely and many of them feel
hopelessness. Those that feel that way
generally don’t have a relationship with Jesus. They may not know that Jesus
says, “I will never leave you or
forsake you”. [Hebrew 13:5] They may not know that God says in Isaiah
54:5, “For your Maker is your husband, the LORD of hosts is His name”.
I like what the Bible tells us in I
Timothy 5:5, “A woman who is truly alone in this world, has placed
her hope in God, asking God for his help.” She has hope and knows her future with Jesus
and has peace within her.
I am
reminded of earlier times when men and women were brought to this country as
slaves. Taken away from their homelands
and family, never to see them again. I
can’t imagine the hopelessness and loneliness they endured. They had no one to
stand up for them or rescue them from terrible standards of living. There was no one to protect them from the
terrible beatings and torture they endured.
Yet, they endured because they learned about a loving God who would be
with them and give them hope. Some of my favorite songs are Negro spirituals
which were filled with the hope of God’s glory.
You
are never really alone when you know Jesus.
You are never without hope when you know Jesus. When I go through troubling times or can’t
sleep, I sing this song. It gives me
immediate comfort and peace and helps connect me to the Lord, himself.
Give me Jesus
By Jeremy Camp
Verses
When I come to rise, O when I come to rise
And when I come to rise, give me Jesus.
When I am alone, and when I am alone,
And when I am alone, give me Jesus.
When I come to die, and when I come to die
And when I come to die, give me Jesus.
Chorus:
Give me Jesus, Give me Jesus
You can have all this world
But give me Jesus.